- by Sara Lu
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While everyone generally tries to do their best when it comes to raising their kids, the stress that comes along with becoming a parent can be a little too much for some people. From sleep deprivation to the constant chaos that comes from raising one or more kids, not all parents can keep their cool in every situation. Some people are able to deal with any situation in a calm and loving manner, but other people tend to have those moments when they completely lose it.
It seems like every parent looks back on moments while they raised their kids and they have some regrets on the choices they made. Whether it's guilt over not being around enough while trying to bring home the bacon or the harshness in their punishment techniques, it's these type of things that make people look back and wonder whether or not there are some legitimate reasons why their kids may not be as loving towards them as they grew into adults. No parent wants to think that their kids don't love them but people might be surprised at how many kids have chosen to move far away from their parents because of hatred they harbor. Take our parenting quiz on the relationship you have with your child and the choices you made in raising them and see if your kids love or hate you.
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Does your kid wear their earbuds while driving in the car with you?
Driving in the car with your kid can be a great time to talk with them and get in some bonding time. Yet, not every child wants to hear what their parent has to say. Does your kid wear their earbuds while driving in the car with you?
Does your kid ask you about your day?
Parents are often curious about what their kids do during the day, whether it's to inquire about school or hear about their relationships with friends and potential love interests. Yet, not all kids care about their parents' day. Does your kid ask you about your day?
Do you actively take care of your child when they’re sick?
Once a child becomes a legal adult, many parents feel that it's their own responsibility to take care of themselves when they're ill. Not every parent is willing to trek over to their kid to help them during a common cold. Do you actively take care of your child when they’re sick?
Do you and your kids share things with one another from the Internet?
One of the most interesting things about the invention of the Internet is the way people can share things that can amuse and mystify. Yet, not every kid wants to laugh at memes with their parents. Do you and your kids share things with one another from the Internet?
Do you ever limit the amount of items your child orders when going out for a meal?
When it comes to taking out an adult child to get something to eat, not every parent encourages their kids to order every single thing on the menu. Do you ever limit the amount of items your child orders when going out for a meal?
Do you ever drink alcohol with your child?
Some people feel like drinking alcohol in front of their children is actually setting a bad example but there are some people that really look forward to their kids reaching drinking age so they can share a drink together. Do you ever drink alcohol with your child?
Do you ever let your child wear your clothes?
Many young people don't exactly understand the importance of taking care of their belongings and this is exponentially worse when it comes to borrowing clothes. Yet, some parents don't mind lending out their most precious clothing items. Do you ever let your child wear your clothes?
Does your kid ever request you to make specialty meals?
Even though not every mother can boast the ability to make restaurant quality food, many people have a warm sense of nostalgia for the meals their parents made for them as a child. Does your kid ever request you to make specialty meals?
Do you ever encourage your child to dress provocatively?
Kris Jenner has been criticized over the years for the way she has encouraged her children to push the envelope when it comes to being provocative. This was completely evident when she was egging on Kim Kardashian during her Playboy shoot. Do you ever encourage your child to dress provocatively?
How much time do you or would you spend with your grandkids?
Once a child grows into an adult and starts their own family, it can seem like parents finally have more of an opportunity to do things like travel or just relax a bit. How much time do you or would you spend with your grandkids?
How often do you take selfies with your child?
There was a time when people didn't really know what a selfie was but it's become the norm in today's society. Yet, not everyone wants to be inside a selfie picture with their parents. How often do you take selfies with your child?
Do you ever find yourself putting expectations on your Mother’s Day celebrations?
Mother's Day is supposed to be a holiday to truly celebrate motherhood but some people see it as a special day that deserves a huge amount of fan fare. Do you ever find yourself putting expectations on your Mother’s Day celebrations?
Does your child ever accuse you of having favorites?
Parents aren't ever supposed to have favorites with their kids but there are some instances where it is blatantly obvious that there is a favorite child. Yet, not everyone agrees with the Everybody Loves Raymond route in parenting. Does your child ever accuse you of having favorites?
Have you ever been critical of your child’s cooking?
Parents are often told to encourage their children to be helpful in the kitchen because it will help them to develop their cooking skills for when they live on their own. Have you ever been critical of your child’s cooking?
Does your child ever invite you to spend extended time with them?
Once a person ventures out to live on their own, spending time with their parents can be a bit tricky if they aren't living close by. Yet, not everyone is keen on inviting their parents to sleep over. Does your child ever invite you to spend extended time with them?
Does your child show interest in your hobbies?
While it would definitely be a bonus if parents and their children shared the same hobbies, not every child wants to indulge in the same activities that their parents are so passionate about. Does your child show interest in your hobbies?
Have you ever bought a car outright for your child?
Shows like My Sweet 16 have shown a number of ultra-rich and famous kids celebrating their 16th birthday in a lavish way. Part of it often includes a brand new car with a big red bow. Have you ever bought a car outright for your child?
How was your behavior towards your child when they were first learning to drive?
When people first learn how to drive, it can be quite intimidating. This is especially true for kids that are being taught by their parents, opposed to a driving school. How was your behavior towards your child when they were first learning to drive?
Has your child ever claimed to be embarrassed by you?
It seems like every child has had an embarrassing moment with their parents, at least one time in their lives. Whether it's a parent trying to look hip in front of their children's friends or a failed style choice. Has your child ever claimed to be embarrassed by you?
Have you ever had a serious physical fight with your child?
There comes a time in a child's life where they no longer see their parents as these huge and domineering personas and, instead, they start to realize that they could easily overpower them if tested. Have you ever had a serious physical fight with your child?
Does your child respect your beliefs?
There comes a time in a child's life when they start to develop their own thoughts on spirituality and religion. While many children continue to follow their parents' beliefs, others choose to question and even mock their parents' beliefs. Does your child respect your beliefs?
Have you ever encouraged your child to get hammered?
Once a child reaches the legal age to drink, there are some parents that look forward to the time when they can have a drink together. Yet, there is quite a difference between sharing a beer and getting hammered. Have you ever encouraged your child to get hammered?
Have your children ever witnessed you having major legal problems?
There are a number of celebrities that have had to fight some major legal issues in the public eye. From being arrested for stealing to going to prison on various other charges, this can have an extreme effect on their kids. Have your children ever witnessed you having major legal problems?
Are your kids embarrassed to show you affection in front of other people?
Some people don't care about what others might think when they want to show affection to their parents. Embracing or offering a kiss during departure can seem completely right for any situation. Are your kids embarrassed to show you affection in front of other people?
Have your kids ever tried to recreate your home recipes?
While many people think of other traditions and values when it comes to passing down things from one generation to the next, home recipes can be a great way to show how much a parent is cherished. Have your kids ever tried to recreate your home recipes?
How would your kid react to going on vacation with just the two of you?
Vacations are a great way to experience new things and see all new sights but not everyone would want to do that as a specialty bonding time. How would your kid react to going on vacation with just the two of you?
Have you ever purchased a ridiculously expensive item for your child for no reason?
Money isn't exactly a factor in how to truly express your love for another person but the cost of an item can sometimes add to how much appreciation can go into it. Have you ever purchased a ridiculously expensive item for your child for no reason?
Is there any venue that has become a tradition for you and your child to visit?
Sharing a particular restaurant or venue with your child can be a great way to maintain a relationship, long after they've left the nest. Is there any venue that has become a tradition for you and your child to visit?
Does your kid come with to other big family functions?
When a child becomes an adult, it can become increasingly difficult to have them attend certain family functions. While a family dinner might be quite simple, a big family party with extended family members might be a tad more difficult. Does your kid come with to other big family functions?
Does your child ever seem to seek your approval with the person they choose to date?
While everyone has their own tastes in their potential romantic relationships, there are some people that try and keep their parents in mind when seeking out a partner. Does your child ever seem to seek your approval with the person they choose to date?
How often do you go out to eat at a nice restaurant with your kid?
A great way to introduce children to new cuisine is by taking them out to eat to an upscale restaurant. This can also be a great way to bond with your child. How often do you go out to eat at a nice restaurant with your kid?
Does your kid still come to your house for special holidays?
Holidays are supposedly the best time to do some amazing bonding with family members but some people find themselves dreading these holiday family meals. Not everyone has a family that can fit into a Norman Rockwell painting. Does your kid still come to your house for special holidays?
Do your kids like to watch television shows with you?
Nowadays, it would be difficult to find a home that didn't have a television set since watching television has become a favorite activity for lounging at home. Yet, not everyone in a household wants to watch the same programs together. Do your kids like to watch television shows with you?
Do your kids allow you to view their social media pages?
The interesting thing about social media sites is the fact that people are able to block others from seeing their activities and posts. There are actually a number of people that choose to block their family members. Do your kids allow you to view their social media pages?
Do you ever get playful with your kid outdoors?
It seems like every season brings on a myriad of fun outdoor activities, whether it's building a snowman in winter or jumping into piled leaves in the fall. Yet, not every parent is willing to participate in these types of activities. Do you ever get playful with your kid outdoors?
Have you ever planted a garden with your child?
In a world obsessed with organically grown vegetables and non-genetically modified foods, people have become more and more intrigued over their own backyard gardens. This can be a great way to get your kids more in touch with their food and also have more bonding time. Have you ever planted a garden with your child?
Were you involved in your children’s extracurricular activities when they were younger?
While some parents viewed their kid's extracurricular activities as just ways to drop their kids off for a few hours, others felt like it was a great chance to further bond with their kids. Were you involved in your children’s extracurricular activities when they were younger?
Did you used to let your children get involved in making meals for the family?
While people generally accept that it's good for children to get involved in learning how to cook, it can be a bit of a pain for parents to allow their kids to help in the kitchen. Did you used to let your children get involved in making meals for the family?
Do your kids root for sports teams with you?
Typically, kids that grow up with parents that are die-hard fans of certain teams will end up rooting for them as well. Yet, some people grow up to go against the grain. Do your kids root for sports teams with you?
How often do you and your child have heart-to-heart conversations?
Asking someone a quick question about their day is completely different from having a heart-to-heart where both of you can really delve into some deeper issues and talk about your feelings. How often do you and your child have heart-to-heart conversations?
How much does your child typically spend on your Christmas present?
Once children grow into an adult, Christmas becomes far more about spending time with family rather than anticipating Santa's visit. The type of present an adult child gives to their parent can actually say a lot. How much does your child typically spend on your Christmas present?
Does your child ever accuse you of loving the family pet more than them?
Oftentimes, pets are viewed as the four-legged member of the family and many people include them in everything from family vacations to holiday cards sent out every year. Does your child ever accuse you of loving the family pet more than them?
Do your children ever ignore you while using their phone?
People seem to be obsessed with their phones and it can be difficult to grab your child's attention when there is so much going on with their cellular phones. From checking their social media to texting, sometimes kids can really be distracted. Do your children ever ignore you while using their phone?
Do your kids know your birthday by heart?
While parents can easily recall their child's birthday, some children can find it difficult to remember their parent's birthday. As a child grows older, it should become far more evident to them to know the date of their parent's birth. Do your kids know your birthday by heart?
Has your child ever given you a heartfelt “Thank you” for all that you’ve done for them?
It's easy for someone to offer a quick statement of gratitude for a small act of kindness but it can be a bit more difficult to offer a "Thank you" for everything done by a parent. Has your child ever given you a heartfelt “Thank you” for all that you’ve done for them?
Would you ever date someone that’s the same age as your child?
Hollywood loves to glorify the women that seek out younger men and some celebrities are proud of being considered a "cougar." Yet, not every child is that understanding about their parent going out with someone their own age. Would you ever date someone that’s the same age as your child?
Do you ever find yourself flirting with your child’s significant other?
Flirting is thought to be a way people show interest in another person but some people can't help but flirt a little to try and seek out attention to help them feel better about themselves. Do you ever find yourself flirting with your child’s significant other?
How often do you find yourself scolding your child?
Everyone understands that a parents' duties include a certain amount of scolding when it comes to discouraging bad behavior. Yet, the dynamic can sometimes change a bit as the child grows into an adult. How often do you find yourself scolding your child?
Do your kids tell you about their romantic relationships?
Some people like to involve their parents in their romantic relationships, whether it's the excitement of telling them about new romantic prospects or seeking out advice to help them through the struggles. Do your kids tell you about their romantic relationships?
Did you spank your children when they were younger?
People have changed their attitude about spanking in recent years and it's not exactly seen as an acceptable form of punishment for a child. Yet, there are still many people that feel that it's the only way to inflict consequence. Did you spank your children when they were younger?
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